For me the best way to tell a top is he's a good looking gay guy but I'm not attracted to him.I have a very good friend from Miami, that went out with Ricky Martin, before Ricky got engaged with his partner Carlos Gonzalez, and he told me that Ricky has a beautiful big dick, that Ricky is a top, and a very passionate lover.But the poster himself was an exclusive bottom, so Bomer still could be bottom or versatile with someone else.On the other hand his ex Mike White supposedly is an exclusive top, as is Halls.I'm met some very femmey women who want to top and almost always do. No, not all lesbians like to use toys, many don't go near them. A piece of vinyl or rubber, or plastic in a phallic shape =/= and sweaty man's dick or the man it might be attached to. Younger people are much more open to either expression- or no anal at all. But there will always be those who are more passive and those who are more aggressive, no matter what the gender or the sex act involved. I'm rather amazed at how often the word "bottom" , "nelly bottom" etc. It's ridiculous, it's self-loathing and it's rooted in misogyny.1) Enjoying receiving anal sex is not a bad thing and it doesn't not mean the man is weak or "feminine".2) "Feminine" is not a bad thing either and it is not "weak". The more positions, the more possibilities the better. Don't let anyone tell you what's better or deserves more status.Most, enjoy it both ways - as you should know many gay men do as well. This thread seems to have evolved from discussing which celebrities are tops or bottoms to a debate on the whole issue of whether the categories are appropriate to begin with.
Most people can't comprehend the position celebrities are in when so many people you meet of either gender want to have sex with you.Don't know about that,but I've seen his dick, if it really is his dick, posted on other websites, and it's just average at best.Lambert is definitely a top, and definitely a tease.There is no other possibility, other than flat out lying. I saw GYPSY 3 times just to see his glorious butt in the 'All I Need is the Girl' number. I'm a non-versatile bottom but for him I'd learn to be a top[quote]Well what do you think?They know either because they know the person, or they know someone who knows the person.I would've thought it would get more difficult to top as you get older.It's not that easy to do to begin with - you have to be able to get really hard and stay that way to fuck someone up the ass...unless the bottom is really loose.[quote]"I heard Lance Bass was a self-described power bottom."[quote]Really? In addition, years back when 'Karem Malick' posted gossip, he wrote that Bass was a hot top.I can't think of any other out gay man who loves to tease and play with women the way he does (here in Miami last week where he loves up a girl and then moves on when she tries to kiss him).Anyone else sick and tired of hearing all the intimate details of the Harris-Burtka union?Why do these two miserable queens feel like they need to share the most personal details? The problem with posts like this is it is rare that guys only do one position 100% of the time.There can always be some example to the contrary where you heard some "top" bottomed or you heard some "bottom" topped.