She wants me to send money to buy one via her money transfer account. “What you said made me act that way.” “You hit/shoved/pushed me, too.” “You started this.” “You’re abusing me, too.” Has your partner ever said things like this to you?Also, I love the average guy, and if you want to see yourself on here, just let me know.
Online dating scammers tend to target people who have a large amount of information in their profiles, and the scam is usually based around stealing money, credit card information, or personal information from the victim. But her cell phone seems to be faulty and her old laptop doesn't have a built in camera. I also enjoy toying with these scammers with elaborate stories of wealth, success, and loneliness.
You shoving your partner in order to get away from them does not constitute abuse.
Abuse is a pattern of behavior intended to have power over someone else, usually a partner.
The excuse of “mutual abuse” also allows the abusive partner to shift blame.
We know that abusive partners rarely take responsibility for their actions and that blame shifting is a common tactic.