Reality check time: For the most part, when it comes to communicating these days, we opt for the quickest and most direct way possible.Long drawn out phone conversations that last for hours on end, during which we bare our souls, are a thing of the past.”What once was Blackberry’s version of chat has not turned into a bit of a covert sexting operation. The virtual pioneer of sending dirty pictures / videos without the fear they pop up on the internet somewhere.You don’t even have to use actual phone numbers numbers in this game, just usernames — and you can send anything from memes, videos, gifs as well as engage in group chats of up to 50 different people. That said, if you Google "Snapchat screenshot" you will quickly see that's not true... Word of advice: Be careful with those head shots, if you know what we mean.And even then probably only happened with your middle school significant other.Therefore it should be no surprise that whispering sweet nothings, and in-person courting, are also quickly fading.As fun as that was, Whats App has made it easier than ever to keep in touch our international lovers with free unlimited messaging, picture, and even voice sending to all countries… How much more effective would sexting be if you could also send a drink with it?Enter House Tab: An app that let’s you see who else is at the same bar as you, and send them drinks complete with a sexy little message right through the app.
It should just be an emoji of two people having sex or an automatic geo-locator, because the only texting that’s not sexually-based on this app is “Where are you?And, the majority of people (56 percent) who sext believe that it's helped their relationship.To prove it, more and more apps are making it easier to get your sext by incorporating messaging into their platforms.Free for i Phone users, it asks to link to your Facebook to access your location, photos, interests, plus ‘friends’ who are signed up too.It links you up to singles who are up for sex in your postcode, but remember – the more info you put on about yourself, the more you can see about others.If you had to choose, would you rather be sexy or smart? Here are some questions to help you dig a little deeper. Would you rather have unlimited love or unlimited money? If you are just starting to get to know each other, it’s best to keep it light and breezy. If you could trade lives with any celebrity, who would it be? You want to ask open-ended questions that are actually fun for the recipient to think about and answer. Here are some questions to help you keep it casual.1. Picture this: You're texting with someone new and the conversation is flowing. This isn't your first texting rodeo, cowboy — but then, it happens. Maybe you felt it building for a while or maybe it snuck up on you, but either way, things have gone awkwardly silent. What’s something you find attractive that most people would consider strange? What is the best present anyone has ever given you? If you were suddenly invisible for the day, how would you spend it? What's something everyone else loves that you think is totally overrated? What's something everyone else hates that you love? Your fingers are dancing across that little keyboard like you're some chatty Mozart. If you're like me, this is when your mind goes totally blank. If you were to peek into my brain at this moment, you would just see a barren landscape of tumbleweeds and old boba tea straw wrappers blowing in the wind. While in the heat of the moment I go straight-up brain dead, right now — without a blank smartphone screen in front of me, staring back accusingly or a nervous system that is flooded with new-romance-hormones — I can actually come up with of questions to get the conversation flowing again. Keep these queries handy so next time you can revive the chat as soon as you sense the momentum of the conversation is dying.