And most of the time, they will reason that the girl is probably on the same page so there is no need to reach out.They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that. If he disappears, it’s because he isn’t the right guy for you.I know plenty of gorgeous, smart, funny, successful, amazing women who have had the vanishing act pulled on them and it didn’t make them any less gorgeous, smart, amazing, etc.A guy can lose interest for any number of reasons and oftentimes it has more to do with him than with you.The sooner you realize and accept this, the better off you’ll be in the long run. When a guy disappears, it’s almost inevitable to feel a flood of self-doubt.Remember, if he wanted to see/speak to you, he would. You didn’t do anything wrong and you are “good enough” to have the relationship you want with a man you want, this guy just wasn’t it.Try to keep your ego out of your relationships as much as possible. As time works its magic, the best thing you can do is stay as busy as possible.
Not until the holidays when I sent a greeting for the holidays.I’m tired to talking about why he vanishing, many times i talked but he keep vanishing and come back. Bcs if he love me he will make me important, and keep in touch with me no matter how busy he is, no matter how much he travels and no matter how much he has going on in his life. I told him i knew he was never going to contact me again.I remained calm and neutral and respectful as I wanted to retain my dignity.I know it’s hard to accept, especially if you really liked this guy, but you really do need to just trust that it’s for the best.Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn’t want to be with you anyway? You want to be with a guy who can’t believe his luck that a girl like you would choose him! He may have left you, don’t let him take your dignity with him.If you feel the need to check up on him, go look at funny You Tube videos or call a friend.Staying busy and keeping your life fun and fulfilling will also have positive long-term results and will put you in a better position to attract an even better guy. — I hope this article helped you understand why men disappear and gave you helpful tips on how to deal with it. Before a man disappears, there will be certain signs.He has a habit of responding late or worst not responding at all to my messages and he has his reasons. Been there recently and if i put my logical head on I realise hes got lots of Issues.But, I’m still not use to it and it worries me every time. Im very upset but Im trying really hard to work on myself and confidence and self esteem I hadnt relised how men and women think so differently and Im 60 Regards xlizx My guy has been incognito for a little over two weeks now. So last time i heard from him was a non response to my messages.MORE: On Loving Yourself and Becoming More Confident 3. Keep your schedule jam-packed so there isn’t a crack for him to slip right in.And do NOT check up on him on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or any other social media portal.