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I handed my phone over to Friend #1- she spent some time typing what appeared to be a message a little on the longer side; something to the effect of- “Hey! I had an awesome time last night and would love to see you again! Make this shorter.” I took back my phone and combined the advice of my two favorite ladies into a message I felt comfortable sending. A message that expressed interest but didn’t take things too far.
But I needed a little help crafting the message (come on ladies, don’t lie, you know you’ve done this, too).
I’m completely on board with the premise of this book. However, there was one fundamental theme of the book that I simply could not get on board with, a theme that repeated itself over and over again throughout the 250 pages.
In this 8 minute video, we see the American authors of The Rules critique the dating techniques of 2 British women.
Whilst I agree with this premise to a point, we need to account for individual differences and a person’s capacity to make their own informed judgment.