Good therapy shouldn’t give us a pass on our faults, but it recognizes what we control and what we don’t control.Good therapy identifies abusive dynamics and personality disorders.Good therapy helps you recognize your agency and power at enforcing boundaries. It might be Keep The Marriage Together At All Costs.
If this is news to you, take those goody goody glasses off your face and take a good look at the pair gyrating in the club, and try keeping a count on the number of partners that are being swapped in a night, at least on the dance floor!The cartoon above is a homage to that guy — a bearded, sweater-vested man, possessing all the gravitas of over-cooked pasta.I described the discovery of cheating, the death threats, the outburst that cheater would like to “piss on the grave” of his ex-wife’s dead baby for speaking to me.Sex with a friend You can turn to a friend to cheer you up, and hang out together to cure those boredom butt pains. A friend can really help cheer you up in more ways than just a shoulder to cry on.If this friend is of the opposite sex and looks hot, that is.Now that you’re all warmed up with the lingo, it’s time to ask yourself if you want to have sex with a friend.And if you do want that, it’s time to take the next baby step into the land of sex buddies.Phone calls and sex with a friend A booty call is that ‘special’ call that is made with the sole intention of having sex, with the person being contacted.And this person is usually a single attractive friend of the opposite sex, who is bored, and craving for some sort of fun to wind a boring day.In these days of sexual relationships and one night stands, friendships too seem to dig in for a stake of lust and carnal desires. A hug between two friends can lead to heavy petting and a drink can show you the direction to your friend’s bedroom, with a finale of lustful lovemaking.[Read: How to accidentally kiss a friend] Why have sex with a friend?