Have you ever met a girl and you were both clearly interested in seeing each other again, but for some reason you never got her out on the first date? She gave you her number, you started texting each other, but then something weird happened…It’s simple. When you learn the rules of the game, you can play to win.
Principle #5 – Master the High-Status Filter – Guys often lose their chances with a woman because they put too much importance (and pressure) on that one girl.This will help remind you that you need to get her out on a date, not waste time becoming her texting buddy.The High-Status Filter also helps when you’re feeling anxious and waiting for her to reply to your messages and she’s taking longer than you want. But would you waste gas, waste time, and put stress on the engine?If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.Instead try this: act as if you’ve got a dozen other women texting you, and that you’re someone who is high status.If you had a lot of women texting you, you’re not going to try and have long, drawn out conversations with one woman.Mistake #2 – Waiting too long to invite her out and set up the date – The main reason you get a girl’s number is because you’re not able to take her out on a date right then and there when you meet her. The longer you wait to ask her out, she more chance she has to forget about you.Remember, she’s on social media all day long and also has other guys asking her out. C = Close – This is what you should start with when you first get her number.I’ve seen lots of guys use text to try and tell stories, be funny or sarcastic, asking her deep questions, etc.Before long, she loses interest, starts replying less and less, and then just stops replying altogether.