Or should I just go ahead and find myself another jack-off buddy? I recently spent a wonderful weekend with a young woman from out of town who identifies as queer and poly.Craving Uncut Masculine Sri Lankan Another jack-off buddy? Being the curious guy I am, I had her explain what these things meant to her.She is very mono and has no interest in going outside the marriage for sex.My quarrel with you has to do with your oft-repeated advice that people should break things off with partners who don't perform oral sex.") don't value their partners and don't deserve intimacy.People who are assholes to everyone don't deserve intimacy either, of course, but they get points for being consistent.Apparently, he's a straight guy who wanted to experiment with men in a very limited way. But after he came, I was really aching for release myself.
It is, however, one of the things on my list for my quarterly pro session.This week, I discovered he had hidden a Fleshlight from me. He really gets off when I call his ass a "pussy," which I'll do to turn him on, but I find it pretty weird. And if you would never knowingly date a bi guy, tell him he deserves better.He also tells me he gets off on the thought of the two of us fucking a woman together. A relationship question that doesn't involve sex: Occasionally when two people live together, they bump into each other or one may get in the way of the other. Always was bi but identified as gay because (1) he prefers men as romantic partners and (2) the biphobia he encountered in gay male spaces/bedrooms/buttholes convinced him to stay closeted but he doesn't want to live a lie anymore and he's done hiding from the man he loves but instead of using his words and coming out to you like a grown-up, GAYBYBI, your boyfriend is letting you know he's bi with his porn choices and a big push to make a MMF threesome sound like a sexy adventure you would both enjoy? As for how to handle it, GAYBYBI, you'll have to use your words: Ask your boyfriend if he's bi.Is it reasonable to be put off if rather than simply hearing "Excuse me" when you are inadvertently in someone's way, the person trying to gain access says, "Do you have to stand there?I've also said that you can't be in an LTR without paying the price of admission, and I've said that a lot more often.If not getting oral at home is the price of admission you're willing to pay to be with your wife, and if allowing you to get oral elsewhere is the price of admission she's willing to pay to be with you, then Godspeed, IWFU, and tip the sex workers you patronize and speak up to fight the stigma against doing sex work and hiring sex workers.For one example: An ethically nonmonogamous woman fucks the boyfriend/husband she loves and other guys she doesn't; a poly woman has two (or more) guys she both loves and fucks.I have two complaints: one with the world and one with you.She went on to say that she is considering changing from poly to nonmonogamous. I'm certainly nonmonogamous, but I've never thought of myself as poly. Confused Over Lines Inside Names I would describe the difference as googleable, COLIN.But since you asked: A nonmonogamous person has sex with their partner and others; a poly person has or is open to having committed and concurrent romantic relationships.