The first thing to do when you find yourself attracted to a shy man is to question your feelings for him.
In other words, ask yourself "Am I attracted in spite of or because of his shyness? A very close friend of mine is extremely shy, and I know plenty of other guys that are shy. Shy guys, almost by definition, do not have the balls to initiate and pursue women.
If a girl doesn't approach or initiate contact with a shy man, nothing will happen.
This is true, but handling this situation isn't as simple as you might think...
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I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
So it is acceptable for you to initiate with a shy guy. The problem with male shyness is that it wears off in specific situations.Unfortunately there is no quantifiable or simple rule here, as his threshold for embarrassment will vary in proportion to his shyness and his pride, which are different in every man. Well, for starters, in the early stages, you will need to give him blatant signs of your interest.Aside from their innate male tendency to overlook anything that isn't spelled out in black and white, shy men will by default doubt any sign of your affection.[Read: Tips to reject someone who likes you] A friends with benefits relationship is always fun, as long as it lasts.Use these 25 friends with benefits rules to prolong the fun for as long as both of you safely can, and end it just before it’s too late.Being friends with benefits with someone can seem like a dream come true.Especially if you’re not interested in anything more than a satisfying romp.This is the biggest rule and the easiest one to remember. But then again, this is also the hardest one to follow. Understand what kind of a relationship you’re getting into right from the start. You’ll end up pissing your friend with benefits or getting a bad reputation.#6 Don’t sleep with two friends from the same group. Get interested in someone else as soon as you start having sex with your friend with benefits.At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.A post I made about why women shouldn't take the initiative in relationships evoked some questions about how to deal with shy men - after all, shy men don't chase women, and are unlikely to initiate anything.