You could be grateful for the things you enjoy doing with the person, or you can recall a time when the person was there for you, cared for, or supported you.After you've spent some time thinking about what you're grateful for about the person, put their photograph in front of you, and with a pen or a notebook, or on the computer, choose the five things you are the most grateful for.Imagine if you wore the only person on Earth; you would have no desire to do anything.What would be the point in creating a painting if no one could see it?What is every person close to you said, "I love you - just the way you are", how would you feel?
Although it is not part of the requirement of this book, you may want to take this amazing practice and use in every day if necessary to make every relationship you have magnificent.
Look at the photograph of the person as you make the your list of five things, begin each sentence with the magic words, thank you, address the person by their name, and then write what you're grateful for.
When you've finished your lists for all three people, continue with this magical practice by taking the photographs with you today and putting them in a place where you will see them often.
In fact, you won't even be able to see the things you use to complain about.
Words are very powerful, so when you complain about any person you're actually harm your life. By the law of attraction whatever you think or say about another person, you bring to you.