"Speck said: Matthew "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." This is utter nonsense to use this definition out of a book to define what is unfaithful.
Of course, if good sex was there to start (I say IF...Petraeus and others of his status/strata are all strong-willed and certainly not weak-minded individuals and they choose this disastrous course all the freaking time.My own husband went this way and believe me, he created that desire in his head first, nursed it and went through with it. It's a choice, a choice of putting your own desires and lusts ahead of everything else and that starts with the consideration of doing so first.cause often it wasn't), then the question is why it isn't anymore.In the end that is however irrelevant, because men will seek actively sex only if what they get at home isn't worth the effort."Drawing the line at sex was the second most popular choice, but it only got 20% overall."Kissing, per se, is meaningless," wrote Michael Wilson.Indeed, other forms of touch like kissing (13%) and hugging (less than 1%) were picked even less often. We also heard from a few readers about fantasizing, which garnered the most comments but only 8% of the survey votes.So we posted a survey on Facebook asking readers where that line of unfaithfulness begins.Is it fantasizing, flirting, communicating online, hugging, kissing or having sex?My wife came back from going out with a friend to hear music at a club almost a year ago.Her friend left her drunk at the club under the care of her friends,(not my wife's friends, who did nothing to keep her from doing something stupid.