(Examples go from lighter to heavier) Remember that these subjects often trigger feelings of shame and defensiveness.Sometimes, you will be met with hesitation and surprise when asking a woman a more intimate question.She may challenge you and put you on the spot about why you’re asking about this sensitive subject.The absolute worst things you can do are apologize or try to explain why you didn’t mean to be “weird”.Why did women suddenly respond with enthusiasm rather than distaste?Whether it’s friends, family, religion, or media — many of us were raised to think that expressing our sexual interest (flirting) was wrong. This is especially true for many women who are afraid of being seen as “slutty” or too forward.
— You aren’t going to magically fall into bed with a woman.Once you’ve gotten into an intimate conversation, you can progressively mix in heavier sexual questions with non-sexual questions.You don’t have to talk about sex endlessly unless she seems really excited to.Of course, you don’t want to start with something extremely intimate.That will come off as intense and discourage a woman from opening up. If she’s discussing them with you, you can move towards heavier ones.Your attitude has to convey that they’re a healthy part of building a romantic connection.I’m not expecting you walk up to random women with questions women like that. In fact, I’ve found that while that approach can work, you usually get a much stronger response and connection if you wait until later in the conversation.You do that by responding with confidence, positivity, and even playfulness. I’d like to think I’m a lot better now.” If you handle her hesitance well, she will usually open up about her sexuality.Here are 3 ways make a woman feel more comfortable if she’s hesitating to answer a sexual question. If you tried one of the above examples and she’s still uncomfortable answering your question, then I wouldn’t broach the subject further during this interaction.You need to bring your conversations toward more intimate topics as an interaction progresses.That’s how she’s going to get turned on and see you as a sexual prospect.