Call it the algorithm method: Working with data crunchers at the dating sites, we put together 25 tips for writing the perfect profile, selecting the right photo, and really understanding your audience.
We analyzed the 1,000 most popular words on both men and women’s profiles, tabulated the most popular movies and TV shows, and crunched stats on what people consider their best feature vs.
In short, we couldn’t have scraped all this data and derived this advice without the help of these talented data crunchers who are as dedicated to data analysis as we are.So, when it comes all the options in the gay world of dating, why do we often forget that even have options available at all?For example: We date a guy who is super hot- but has no job.Enroll in a yoga class and learn to surf—they’re the most popular activities for men and women alike, so either desirable singles are super mellow or it’s aspirational, and everyone to be mellow.Mentioning cats is fine, but mention “my cats” and you’re a weirdo.(Guys, if you’re reading this…get in touch if you want to share!)Below are the common types of women single grownup men have told me about. Read the general description of each here, or start reading more about each Femitype, starting with The Princess — click here.Assertiveness should rule all aspects of “committing” to your dating schedule. Okay folks, there it is- my Top Five Gay Golden Rules of Dating.I beg you to start instituting them immediately and I promise you they will change your love life.Like you, the men you’re dating have lived and learned. The only way you can empathize is to know their side of the story.Just like how you’ve dated your share of challenging types of men like the disappearing/reappearing Pinger, the Couch Potato, and the older-and-balder-than-his-profile-guy…men meet and enter into relationships with less-than-impressive types of women.