According to the website, okcupid users send 7.3 million messages per day, with more than 90,000 users online at any given time.
If you join the A-List Basic plan, you can see who likes you, get read receipts for messages, and more.
Our top picks include sites like Zoosk, which is the best site for geeks who need some help making the first move, and eharmony, which we're naming the best site for anyone who loves an algorithm.
We are also big fans of okcupid, for how LGBTQ-friendly it is.
You get to choose an automated message to break the ice, then Zoosk will send it to other men and women for you.
The people who respond are interested in getting to know you a little better. Pricing: A one-month subscription is .95, three months costs .98/month, and six months is just .49/month Try it free: Who's online: eharmony has more than 20 million members and claims responsibility for some 600,000 marriages, so chances are there's someone on there for you.