Be patient, write a better profile, and learn not to get so frustrated with men, and you can enjoy online dating a lot more.
As a man, your takeaway is that the competition is fierce, and thus far, you have not been up to it.
As they say in advertising, it’s all about the branding.
Here’s an example – imagine you are an attractive woman (like the type you want to date) and you come across the profiles of two men who are about equally as attractive as one another.
All it takes is the confidence and willingness to own the alpha male persona.
At the current rate it would take the most popular man 2.3 years to fill up his. Well, you’ve seen this a few times before:“Most men compliment the attractive women a lot, they make reference to something in the woman’s profile (you would not believe how many times men mentioned the party tricks and ‘Arrow’ the cheetah from the generic profile I wrote), or they ask a general question about travel or something equally boring.”What SHOULD he write instead?
In case it’s not obvious: Demonstrate creativity, intelligence and a great sense of humour• Be totally different to anything she may have received before • Be obviously unique and not a cut-and-paste job • Show that I’ve read her profile and absorbed facts about her • Not be needy!
Whereas before a man just needed to be the best looking guy at work to get a date with a colleague, now he needed to be in the top 10% of all men to get a date with one of the women in his city.”This is the double-edged sword of online dating.
You have far more access to singles than ever before. Which means that there’s also far more COMPETITION.