It’s natural to feel hurt: Ending an abusive relationship is a big change, and all major life changes can be challenging to adjust to how things are different.In abusive relationships, it is common for partners to spend all their free time together.Counseling can be a good option to move on from the abuse because it provides people with a regular opportunity to talk about their feelings after the break up.If you are uncertain about where to look for counseling, loveisrespect has counseling resources in your area that we would be happy to find for you.If she’s with her new exciting NRE boyfriend, and you keep contacting her like a little puppy, her attraction for you goes into the toilet. This is exactly why I have a FB / MLTR return rate of 94%. That’s a real number pulled directly from my spreadsheets.94% of every woman I’ve had sex with more than twice has returned to my sex life after leaving me.
So a lot of the negative feelings a person can have after a break up are the result of the abuse that happened in the relationship.However many of you are not going to have the courage to ever try it, either because you fear it or because it opposes your Societal Programming so starkly that you can’t imagine it working. Completely vanish out of her life, like you were never there.Today I’m going to discuss another extremely powerful, simple-to-do-but-hard-to-mentally-accept technique that will change your life if you get it and practice it. This is, of course, the exact opposite of what you’ll want to do.Also, people who are abusive can make the other person think that he/she is not worthy of having friends or dating anyone else.When the relationship ends and the abusive partner has done all they can to make the other person feel unworthy, it can be easy to feel like there is no one else who cares.Pursue your own dreams and interests: One of the most precious things we have is time, and the choice of how to spend that time is often taken away from a person in an abusive relationship.After the relationship ends, it can be incredibly liberating to know that you can go back to pursuing your favorite things.I’m going to tell you how to ensure an ex comes back to you after she breaks up with you, nexts you, LSNFTEs you, or otherwise leaves you. You’ll want to keep texting, calling, commenting, or whatever to try to “get her back.” When a woman dumps your ass, your oneitis, scarcity mentality, and righteous male need for “respect” will all flare up at the same time. The problem is this is exactly what further turns her off.I have used this technique bazillions of times on scores of women with success rates as high as 94%. If you keep contacting her, her attraction for you decreases.If it’s hard to open up to people at first, starting a journal can be a huge help as well.Not only will you be able to get your emotions out on paper, you will have a record of how you’re feeling on a regular basis.