Reading the articles at this website will satisfy your curiosity about what a TS is, what she needs and how she thinks. Women love to be "taken" by a masculine man, since it is the act of erotic surrender that centers them, that makes them feel like "a real woman." Therefore, hardly any TS with the sensibilities of a woman will be looking to "top" a guy or will be looking for a guy who wants to suck her dick.Therefore, a man doesn't need to bring up TS issues on the first date. I keep using the expression, "a TS with the sensibilities of a GG..." for a reason, to distinguish the TS who wants to be treated as a woman, who fully identifies with being a woman, from those who cater to the submissive male crowd, the bi-male crowd and the thrill-seeking crowd for money. If he's just looking for a blowjob from a TS, or wants to suck some TS dick, cool. If he wants to get something real going, then forget about the escorts. Those girls get lied to every hour of every day and have heard it all. One guy told me dating a so-called independent woman "is like dating your brother." Who among the women of today delight in being extremely (and classically) feminine? Others find solace with a pre-op transsexual because she used to be a male and has a far better understanding of what it means to be male than most GG's ever will. In other words, treat her like he would any GG date, at a pace that he can handle, given his concerns. This quote came to me this evening as I was writing this article.
Thank you." -from a TS woman."Hi, that's very good.
Some careful dialogue with the guy usually uncovers the fact that he was very attracted to the TS's femininity. What a pre-op transsexual woman wants in a guy is what most any woman wants in a guy. If a guy wants to develop a relationship with a TS (think this through carefully) how should he approach her?
Any guy who is chronically misunderstood by GG's will be able to appreciate the viewpoint of the TS. Can he relax around her and just enjoy being with her, as if she were a GG? A pretty TS said she wants "a man with class, respect, morals, intelligence, humor and loyalty." She is having great difficulty finding a man like that.
She craves to be treated like any other woman, but she fully expects her date to ask inappropriate sex- and TS-related questions, because it happens all the time. She responds as a woman, therefore she regards herself as a woman. The pre-op TS will often adopt an image that is clearly, unmistakably feminine as she seeks to define herself as a woman. Interestingly enough, this approach to pleasing a man and adopting a feminine appearance is rather sadly lacking today among genetic women. I am actually going on a date with a very classy TS next week.
But being female for her is likely a whole lot more difficult than it is for the GG. Imagine how men she meets react when she tells them she is a TS who hasn't had the sex change. Probably she will not care to dress in a way that could be construed as masculine. The TS wants to immerse herself into something warmly and clearly feminine, which accounts for the clearly feminine clothing and heels. Finding a man who will accept her as a woman with a dick is very difficult indeed. When my girlfriend and I go off to the movies or a restaurant, she is almost always the only female in the place in a blouse and skirt, or a dress -- and both the men and women notice her. They want their women to dress in a more feminine manner too, and it isn't happening for them. A TS is very likely looking for a straight man, for it is a man who will make her feel like the woman she is, which is something to which most any GG can attest. There is often friction between the transgendered and gay communities. I hope to take her to a very nice dinner and just enjoy her company.