Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 #Stencil . Bdend-1g /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr #ya-best-answer, #ya-qpage-msg, #ya-question-detail, li.ya-other-answer .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Bxsh-003-prpl #yai-q-answer, #ya-trending, #ya-related-questions h2. Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ .He knows that this would be way too far for me as I have a huge fear that one day he'll want more from his cross dressing and leave me or cheat on me with someone he can fulfill his fantasies with. I said to him if it was fraud then he would need to call his bank, on loudspeaker in front of me, and report it. The bank agreed it was fraud but also said it would be going to their crime department and there would be repercussions if he had lied to them. Do banks normally say they'll refund you when you make an initial call like this?Or must they have seen something their end to prove it was likely to be fraud? I can't see there's a way to log on with an email address only with a login which I can't see that you can reset otherwise I would have entered his email to see if an account was recognized.You have stayed with him although you are not ok with it, his big lie was that basically he could keep his needs at bay, when clearly he can't.
The website doesn't sign in through email, it signs in through a username and you can only reset the password with the username as well. I doubt they'd bother for £13 but he may be asked to take his business elsewhere.
Were you aware when you married him that his predilection for cross-dressing could give rise to such uncertainty about your future together? He likely feels insecure that you might leave him for what he does as much as you fear that he may leave so he can fulfil his urges.
It seem both your fears have lead to this situation.
We're at a stage where we can talk about it and he has some "outfits" that I'm ok with him wearing around me but he knows I don't like him spending lots of money on it and that I will not have sex with him wearing it. Now I've found charges to his bank account to a website called Chatropolis.
It doesn't take much looking around to see they have a "Men in Lingerie" section, as well as plenty of other things. Lying about it would be worse than the act itself to me.