Instead, the meeting and interaction just "happens" in the moment. But would you go to a different country just to start a conversation with a woman? So unless she gave you the "eye contact signals", don't do it.Being able to do this or allow it to happen "sweeps women off their feet" because it's real, authentic, and non-calculative. First, you DON'T go out of your way to talk to a woman. Second, if a woman is in earshot and you have time, just take the opportunity.To understand the reason this "approach" works, it helps to know the "psychology" of how women respond to being approached...So imagine what it's like to be a woman for a moment: If you noticed a guy walking up to you in your peripheral vision, you'd know he obviously WANTS something from you, wouldn't you?In fact, it often seems to be the case that most people are even "nicer" to strangers than people they actually know.
So he's actually telegraphed his intentions just by the way he walked up to her. So if you walk directly up to a woman out of the blue, generally you're expressing your sexual interest by doing that.
by Keenan Cullen Hey Man, I'm about to reveal my VERY BEST technique for starting a conversation with a woman.
Not only does it guarantee you won't get rejected, but it's actually the way women PREFER to be approached by a man! Or maybe you're afraid of looking "foolish" and having everyone around watch you. "I'm scared of being rejected, so I want to know the perfect thing to say." Well, guess what?
And not only that, it's a non-threatening invitation because you're not even facing her... In fact, it's like you're indirectly welcoming her into your experience, which communicates all the "right" things. But most times, she'll give you her attention in one of two ways: Either she'll respond by saying something, which lets you know that it's now OK to look at her and get into a conversation.
For example, you may pick-up an interesting gadget from the check-out rack and say, "Damn! Next, what you want to do is notice how she's reacting to what you said using just your peripheral awareness. If she's not interested, she'll just continue on with what she was doing. I mean, it's not like you were talking directly to her or anything, so how can she "reject" you? Or she'll look at you because she's curious, but won't say anything.