” then you two are “married” according to that definition. If you definitely need a wedding, then a wedding would be part of your definition of a marriage. Imagine the following scenario: You excitedly asked the other person, “Will you marry me? Fill in the blank: Here are the qualities I need in a husband / wife: Like the definition of marriage above, this list will help you determine what you are looking for, so that you spend a minimum amount of time pursuing the wrong people.
It lets you determine quickly who to ask and what to ask.
Wouldn’t it be better to take a few months and think it over clearly instead of spending years in relationships that don’t work?
After careful consideration, my list is pretty simple: Is Single Open And Honest Educated Flexible/Open Minded – Easily Adapts To Change Has Great Listening And Conflict Resolution Skills Knows What She Wants Female Available – Able To Fit Me Into Her Life Has Compatible Goals Loves And Appreciates Me For Who I Am After I made this list, it only took about a year for me to find what I feel is the perfect person for me.
It only takes a few questions to figure out if someone has a decent idea of what they want in life, so that the amount of time invested in “rejecting” a potential candidate is highly minimized.“Married” people can range from enemies trying to make each other’s lives miserable, to activity partners who happen to live together, to someone you are madly in love with and want to start a family with. ” This is actually a “good” case where the difference in definition is apparent before legally binding stuff occurs.So when you figure out if you really want to be married, also make it clear to yourself what being married means to you. What if this conversation happens with one person wanting kids and the other not after they are married for a while?Well, that doesn’t require an actual “legal” marriage! Once you’ve figured out what a marriage entails (so that you know what to ask a potential husband / wife), the question is who to ask!You can tell someone “I love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you”, and if he/she says “I love you too – that sounds great! Well, it’s to make sure you know what you want well enough that you can express it to the other person. Take a while and think about what qualities you need in someone for marriage.This does require a bit of faith and a lot of security, as you won’t be going on a lot of dates or doing a lot of “stuff” with people.You’ll need confidence in knowing that what you are doing is right.With every success or “failure” in this area, something new and interesting comes up.Please be aware though that I am currently in love, so my analysis may be somewhat biased.It might take you a few relationships to get your list right.This once again points to the importance of having an accurate idea of what you want!