And you end up craving it, waiting until the next time with bated breath. They're really kind of addictive, too, because when you're together YOU are their EVERYTHING. In a non-creepy way, I think I am addicted to him, but he drives me crazy at he same time! Basically what was written was that when a man begins to hworry about marriage or settling down, he will learn to prioritize the needs of his family and marriage and place them first above everything else.
But then they are off to put that amazing focus on WORK. While if a he was still a bachelor, his work is the only the passion in his life, and thus he is always prompted to work harder and forget everything else.
I mean I would like to think so as he calls me every night, no matter how tired or worn down he is, and he has told me he has lists of friends and family that he hasn't returned calls to yet. It's easy to give your all when you only have to do it 2 or 3 times a month. Dating workaholics are not fun if you don't like a guy who is always busy 24/7.
(I am not saying that is a good thing, but maybe it shows I am somewhat of a priority) Has he recently been divorced? It sounds like he is keeping some sort of distance or keeping everything compartmentalized. See the thing is that your not a top priority, which means you your not first or second on their list in life.
I hate that I am, but like I previously said, I just can't help how I feel...a lot of it has to do with my past.
I would be willing to try anything to help with that side of me in order to be with him for a long time.
And you end up craving it, waiting until the next time with bated breath. I think this can be applied for every workaholics in general.
When we are together, I don't want to be anywhere else.
We live in the same city..should be seeing each other more than once a week, in my opinion.
Over time it has gotten much easier to be apart from him, but at the end of the day, my heart tells me that I just need to be with this person more often.
But do I just go on hoping I will become ok with it?
He does work on the one day I get to see him..I said he works every day.