The prevalence of dating violence was higher among 11th-grade male (11.5%) and 12th-grade male (11.4%) than 9th-grade male (9.1%) students. Mc Evoy, author of the book If He is Raped How does a woman force a guy to have unwanted sex?
Prevalence of dating violence ranged 7.4% to 17.8% across state surveys (median: 11.1%) and from 8.0% to 18.5% across local surveys (median: 12.0%) Centers for Disease Control (2010), "Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance --- United States, 2009" Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report: Surveillance Summaries June 4, 2010 / 59(SS05);1-142 2003 Youth Risk Behavior Survey Here's what the 2003 report says: By using data from the 2003 Youth Risk Behavior Survey (YRBS), CDC analyzed the prevalence of physical dating violence (PDV) victimization among high school students and its association with five risk behaviors. We'll do it anonymously, unless you give specific permission to use your name and/or e-mail address. According to expert Cindi Struckman-Johnson, women are most likely to use psychological pressure such as verbal pleading and arguments, emotional blackmail, and deception.
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Note: If you have been the victim of dating violence (hitting, kicking, coerced into sex, stalking) please e-mail me and tell me about it. A few men reported that women blackmailed them into having sex by threatening to divulge damaging information to parents, employers or girlfriends. Martin Fiebert examines reasons women give for assaulting men.that’s such a defining experience for a young person.They may wonder, “How do I have healthy sex with someone? ” Who the victim discloses the abuse to first is critical to whether or not a victim is able move past abuse healthfully, Redetzke Field says.The boy was too humiliated to want to tell anyone about it. It objectifies women as well as men a "hot topic" for feminists. ( concentrates on domestic violence against straight men, gay men, and lesbian women, because few services exist for these groups. What would be the outcry if a boy grabbed a girl by the crotch at that dance? It treats both parties as objects in which to "get off" in recreational sex, rather than people with whom to form a "whole person" romantic relationship. Abuse is about "power and control," as proponents of the "Duluth Model" of domestic violence are quick to tell you. Personal stories, a comprehensive listing of Web resources and books, info on local shelters and groups that help battered men or offer services for abusive women, suggestions on how you can make a difference in the lives of people affected by abuse. Domestic Violence in Washington: 25,473 Men a Year According to a Nov. Moreover, colleges are required to include a statement of policy and procedures about how they’re handling these crimes.Many colleges have counseling and support services for students who are victims of domestic violence, in addition to partnerships with local domestic violence shelters.And while 52 percent of college students know someone being abused, many don’t intervene because they think it will make matters worse, they feel it is not their business, they think it will hurt their relationship with the victim, they know the abuser or they are afraid the abuser might make their own life more difficult.Redetzke Field adds, “Violence in high school relationships carries over to college.The prevalence of PDV victimization was similar for males (8.9%) and females (8.8%) and similar by grade level (range: 8.1%--10.1%) (Table 1). The Centers for Disease Control "cook" the data and ignore their own study on domestic violence to gender-polarize the issue of dating violence, but many studies show that women initiate dating violence about as often as men. The woman then manually or orally stimulates him to erection and mounts him for sexual intercourse.Prevalence of reported PDV victimization was greater among blacks (13.9%) than whites (7.0%) and Hispanics (9.3%). Sexually aggressive women only occasionally resort to force tactics, which we define as intimidation with size, threats of harm including blackmail, physical restraint, physical harm or use of a weapon. Women locked men into cars, blocked their retreat from a room, grabbed at them, threw them down on beds and floors, sat on them, and tied them up.