I may be generalizing but do you see the same thing? If in your 40’s, it seems OK to me to date guys in their 30’s, 40’s or 50’s. Guys in their 30’s are definitely out, guys in the 40’s might work, but they might want women in their 30’s or 40’s, guys in their 50’s definitely want girls in their 30’s or 40’s, and guys in their 60’s are just too old. Being new at this, I’m going to go for just being my Gosh darn self and if someone wants to date me, great, and if they think I’m too old, then so be it. It’s all about believing you have a lot to offer someone, which I do. Some suggest that older single males find younger women to date, a myth popularized by the media and the Russian mail order bride industry.But the reality is that this accounts for only a very small percentage of the older single male population, and most of them are George Clooney.
For a certain sum of money, she will match you with fabulous eligible women. I’ll leave you with this–Beautiful women who are over 50: Michelle Pfeiffer, Andie Mac Dowell, Catherine Keener, Oprah, Madonna, Kim Basinger, Kim Catrall, Christie Brinkley, Diane Sawyer, Jennifer Grey Best of luck!Older single women, have long pondered the enigma of the elusive older single male.In fact, nearly 60 percent say they make better decisions about compatibility now compared to when they were younger. If he walks away from the date having shared too much or hasn’t learned about you, then there won't be a second date. Some 42 percent have better quality dates, and 52 percent say part of the allure of dating in the 50s is the absence of the tick-tock of the biological clock. Ask any married woman if she knows any single, eligible older women and she will rattle off any number of names.Ask if she knows older single men and she will either have no idea or will suggest Ralph, her husband's never-married second cousin whose hobby is creating sculptures of all the former Presidents, using Styrofoam peanuts and twist ties. Research into this enigma has resulted in several answers, depending on one's perspective, life experiences, and the success or failure of one's last date. As to the “why” behind the lack of date-nights, nearly 60 percent say they don’t need a relationship to be happy. More than 40 percent said they were considering it, but not actually doing it.Women who frequent online dating sites have a different impression of where older men might be.They read men's self-professed penchant for cycling/hiking/boating/climbing /kayaking /running/walking/swimming/golfing.