My question to 40-something women is how comfortable would you be with that age difference, especially if you get along really well?Are older men just more appealing when you’re younger or is it a matter of being a young soul or an old soul and a good connection?It doesn’t mean she wanted to party and screw around.She just wanted to explore and do more, more, more, rather than less.
I told my family, but they’re not fond of the age difference (my older brothers think it’s “disgusting”).
While most women say it’s great to date an older man…there’s a limit. There is another voice in your head wondering about what this “strangeness” is all about.
When you date someone over 30 in your 20s there could be an imbalance of power. There is a big difference between a 39-year-old male who has experienced life changes and challenges that have made him mature and one who has only been responsible to himself.
Q: If I’m dating a man who is 39 when I’m 21 what will it be like when I’m 42 and he’s 60? We have a lot in common and we get along really well.
We did break up after 6 months because he felt bad about the age difference and was hesitant to meet my family.