My readers are discussing how difficult, painful, and destructive it is to keep hanging on to an affair with a married man.
You need to heal, to set your heart free from the guilt, shame, grief, pain, and heartache.
It’s a huge mistake – destructive emotionally, spiritually, physically, socially – to have an affair with another woman’s husband.
You know this isn’t real love, and you know the married man won’t leave his wife for you.
I didn’t think anyone would read it because I thought it’d be easy to not cheat! Recently I’ve had some very honest conversations with my friends about dating married men, and I’ve realized that affairs are more common than I realize.
But no matter how common it is to fall in love with and date a married man, it is degrading, dishonest, and disappointing.
You know what true love is, and you also know that if the married man really loved you…he’d be with you every night. You question yourself: “What if he really is different?
He’d leave his wife for you instead of lying to you, lying to her, lying to his children, and lying to himself. ” “What if my married man’s excuses are actually valid?
This married man feels like to meet the most beautiful, perfect man for you.He doesn’t respect you or his wife, and you no longer respect yourself.The longer you keep cheating with another woman’s husband, the worse and more degraded you will feel…the harder it’ll be to break up with this married man and heal your broken heart.Or maybe deep down you secretly enjoy the secrecy and lies, dishonesty and pain of having an affair with a married man.But you’re here because you want to be free of the guilt, shame, and self-loathing that accompanies cheating with another woman’s husband.You know it’s wrong to be having an affair with another woman’s husband, but you can’t seem to let him go.These tips on how to stop dating a married man will help heal your broken heart.I admit I miss his company and the way he looked at me and the way he touched me. Looking back I realize how toxic it was to sit at home on holidays while he was with his family, and only see him when he was available.We never showed affection in public, and we could never spend time with friends as a couple.” A few years ago, I wrote an article called How to Stop Cheating in a Relationship.” “What if he really is on the road to end his marriage for me?” But you know the truth: he won’t leave his wife for you.