So do not become argumentative with him during a debate, if you are not on his side, “it better you no say nothing”9.Do not treat your man like a child even if he is being juvenile.He doesn’t want a drama queen or a woman that is assertive and opinionated. A Woman who “keeps in” and takes care of his home while he traipsing across the island, having the time of his life. Do not insult him in front of his friends or in public.You can even pretend to support his stance in front of his friends but do not damage his social image or reduce his peers’ respect for him by constantly asserting your opinions and emasculating him.I sat on the veranda during the recent torrential downpour listening to my spouse and his friends discussing women and why they thought that Jamaican women do not understand “themselves”.I asked them what were some of the issues they wished women understood that would make their relationships more cohesive and fulfilling.“Anything you get, you must take, you went looking for something and you got what you were searching for”4. Do not think that when your Jamaican man starts having sex with you, its a license for you to go ahead and get pregnant and tie him down.Your Jamaican man wants to enjoy you and he wants to have fun with you before you decide to get big and bloated.
You lose your right to question him about anything dis-satisfactory you found in his phone since you are by law not suppose to search phone.
Good Sex will keep any man around but a wholesome woman will get a man to marry her.
Men are no longer “looking inna face” when it comes to relationships.
They want a partner that can bring some money to the table. They don’t need a parasitic partner but a symbiosis in their relationship.
They want a partner who is leading her separate independent financial life and is not entirely dependent on him for subsistence.