I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast.
Places frequented by tourists in Medellin are more saturated with foreigners than before.
D.) I started to read about this subject back in high school.
It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.
I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still floored at some of the women in my gym!
On the street, I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job.
At first glance, Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.
So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.
I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to picking up.It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all.Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.I go to the supermarket and I see beautiful women, I go get my hair cut and there’s a breathtaking woman, I go eat lunch and I see an amazingly attractive woman.I do this often, and many times I will dance one or two songs without even saying a word.Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names.Generally, these women will be dressed and fashionable.I can tell they are going to work because normally they will have a badge around their neck or pinned to their shirt or pants.