At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.If you get dumped by a guy you like, remember that although this is probably due in part to men playing below their league, it is also the product of you being ambitious in your relationships: you are trying to get the best guy you can, and therefore you are dating guys that might dump you. If you were constantly settling for guys of a low caliber, then of course you would have more success, but you wouldn't be content. ------------------------------------- If you liked this post, you'll definitely like my book, Beyond the Breakup, which says a lot more about the importance of rejection and how to use it to grow into the kind of girl guys really want to commit to. confirms that sensitivity to emotional pain resides in the same area of the brain as physical pain – they can hurt equally. If we have increased sensitivity to physical pain, we’re more vulnerable to feelings of rejection.It’s important to keep this in mind if you are ever going through a tough time – you have the right to feel this way.Our evolution and tribal nature has allowed our brains to develop strong signals to avoid the likelihood of rejection.Moreover, love stimulates such strong feel-good neuro-chemicals that rejection can feel like withdrawal from a drug, says anthropologist Helen Fisher.
Don’t let the fear of rejection hamper your activity in dating or life in general but accept that rejection is just a fact of life.
Entering the dating game opens you up to rejection in its many forms.
You must learn to understand the difference between personal and impersonal rejection in order to survive.
Look at the things that wouldn’t have worked – was the chemistry really there? Aspects of their personal life that you have reservations about? Obviously don’t play the field, but with online dating it’s important not to put all of your effort, wishes, dreams, etc. It’s fine because you have another date lined up next week! Think about what you were doing this time last year – most people will struggle.
into one date, especially if you haven’t even met the person. This simple exercise highlights that things will pass, you will forget about this and this pain will go away and you will be back on a new venture – such is life.