One of the most important considerations is what it will do to your career.Because the bottom line is, you need money, and you need to enjoy what you CHOOSE to do with the majority of your time. To be happy, you must be passionate about what you do.However, you should take calculated risks and not make rash decisions.Plan for things in a realistic way and don’t just make decisions based on pure emotion.But the approach is crucial, consider living separately, so you can have a real dating experience and get to know them. If it’s truly a good match, the dating phase will just add icing to the cake.Now let’s take off the pink glasses and capture the reality.
Has a lot of time passed, and if you really wanted to, could you have made being together a reality?You can find work, you can meet people and you can thrive if you change your life, but just read the rest of this article and make sure you feel really good about the status of your relationship.I am a big supporter of taking risks in life, because in order to experience things, we truly must risk it.Have you discussed the pros and cons of what it would entail for either of you to move? If you think not working is your ticket out of misery, you are surely mistaken.There should be equality in these big decisions and you should feel empowered throughout the process. If a man thinks his career is more important than yours because he makes more money, that has nothing to do with your future happiness. If he is looking for a woman to be around the house to do the cooking and cleaning and organize the gardener with the house painter, you need to realize that you are setting yourself up to be the underdog.Remember, we are still coming out of a time of serious oppression as women.Men who are looking for a housewife are still at large. If you find that you aren’t happy unless you hear from him, this is a sign that you are seeking happiness in him and not providing it from within yourself.These are all important factors to consider when moving to a new area.If you lived in North Carolina and paid 0 to rent a room, you wouldn’t be able to find anything near that in New York City.Ruling the topmost house of the zodiac, the 10th house (Regnum - Kingdom), these folks want to be on the top of any project they undertake.Dating one will definitely be a process -- long and difficult but entirely rewarding.