We don’t like chit-chat if it’s not towards a purpose, it’s just not how we’re wired.
My point is that in the moments he’s with you, he probably does mean it.It’s better to just think about what’s happening and where you’re coming from in all of it. But when they consistently do the same thing and it is something that just doesn’t work for me and I feel like it’s reasonable for me to expect it, I do bring it up. He said he loved me, bought me a ring ( not the ring!Some things to consider: Personally, in a relationship, if someone doesn’t do what I expect them to do, I usually forgive them… I would say it should be as simple as, “OK, you’re doing this and it makes me feel this way (whatever it is you feel) and it makes me think this… ) And has always been persistent about me wearing it.It sounds obvious when I write it out, but in real life, you do need to keep clear on where you’re coming from. Adding to this point, I would also avoid words like “never” and “always” when it comes to things he does. He even said he loves me after only 2 weeks of dating. He talked to me about how he miss his family and working has caused him to neglect his family and life. He calls me everyday and we just stay on the phone for hours. He even introduced me as his girl and made his kids think we were still together. It was just not the same and it went on for 2 to 3 months . He said his job is killing his fatherhood, relationship with me and other things. It really define men and women brelationship, I think.Let me tell you, nothing makes me angrier faster than having a woman tell me I “always” do something (whatever it is) wrong or that I “never” do something (whatever it is) right. He said that he was in a 10 year on and off relationship with his son mother and they were engaged to be married. He moved out and they broke it off wedding and all. He also mentioned that I don’t seem to show him as much love as he show me and that he has loss himself trying to be everything for me, being late for work from talking to me. He works like 15 hours a day for the past 3 months . But what I want to say, that I am not feel like living in this world now.Can you give me a reason that would help me understand why this keeps happening? I would say go for understanding, don’t go for resolution. I need to hear things like I love you and miss you more often then he is willing to say, he says I’m too needy.When you put it to him like that, you’re not blaming him, you’re just telling him how you feel and asking for an explanation you can understand. But when he does something selfish are hurt me, I bring it to his attention and just get snobby about it when we were dating and he felt pressured . Ok, he gets off from work and plan to go off with his cousin and he have not taken me out in weeks. He says he needs a woman who is confident that he loves her. I feel like he is pushing me away because he is scared.It makes me feel unloved but I don’t know how to let him know that without him getting mad.He’s like “Oh yeah, I’ll text you tomorrow.” Then he doesn’t!In fact, I would even be so bold as to say that a man will almost inevitably leave a woman if he does not believe he can make her happy. You want to make sure you let him know when he’s successful and you want to make sure he knows how he Why would and old friend of mine tell my fiance that he wants to be the god father of our future wedding and he’ll even buy the cake? He talks about long trips and getting me a massage etc. Said he wants to buy another car a freign car, and looking into buying a house big enough for who ever . I dont blame men…I blame just it happened, this trape..:-((((((((((((((((((((((((((( I am really sorry about it, for me, for my daughters, for women :-(((((((((((((((((((There is no hope…It is really as It is written..I don´t blame men, I am just not feeling to live…:-(((((((((( I am sorry for english…I am sorry for this comment…I had to write….