attack another person’s character flaws instead of looking inward, thus never having to deal with why they thrive on drama to begin with.
This is a defense mechanism they use to avoid the hard work of looking introspectively and discovering that just maybe the reason why they create drama is because they feel they have no purpose or drive; to admit that and give up drama means they have no purpose or importance in this world ).
I don’t do awkward silences well, so I ask the next question that pops into my mind.“So, why’d you stay with her so long in spite of all the crazy?
Sadly most men these days don’t lead with gentleness, humility, and selflessness in their relationships, which is why there’s so much misogyny prevalent in today’s society.
Often times, a young woman will have been wounded by an immature young man and to protect herself will become General Patton.
There’s nothing wrong with being sensitive, it’s just when that sensitivity can ruin an entire day from something as seemingly harmless as stating, “.” Disappointment is fine in a situation like that, but pouting, back-handed comments, and general irritability may tell you that you have a House of Cards on hand.
The underlying problem behind the House of Cards is that her foundation is shaky and in reality, everything revolves around her needs.