If she loves wine, take her to a wine fair or a wine tasting; if she likes chocolate, buy her one; if she loves nature, invite her to a breathtaking lookout; if she wants to adopt a dog, send her a couple of options and go with her to see them.Trust me; this is the best way to make sure you have a second date and probably a lot more.Making noises with your mouth, burping, or slurping your beer isn’t sexy.Show some chivalry; let your date sit first, be respectful with the people around you, and of course, forget about your phone. “Te ves muy linda”, “Me encantan tus chistes”, or whatever flows into the conversation will score extra points. If talking to you seems like talking to a new friend, you’ll probably become ‘just another one’ on the dating list. Give her a nice look, lightly touch her leg, or hug her if she’s cold.Even if the dancing is not your thing, you’ve got to give it a try.She will think you look so tierno for making the effort, and if you’ve actually got moves, you’ll win major points.There’s a lot more interesting things about our culture.We Colombian girls like and demand attention (and good manners).
Punctuality is not a quality of Colombians, particularly women on a first date. Engage with her stories, pay attention, ask questions — and be forthcoming. Demonstrate that you want to know more about her life. If she offers to pay part of the bill, don’t take it too seriously. This is just a way to show your interest and to let her know that you enjoyed her company.Choosing sexy but not vulgar clothes, the right high-heels and purse that match them, and putting enough makeup to make them look pretty, but not to scare the prospect, may take longer than expected. A date is not a fixed interview and there’s nothing more unattractive than a monosyllabic man; after several tries with answers like “sí,” “no,” “nada,” and a lot of awkward silences, she will probably want to run away. A simple “Gracias por la compañía”, “La pasé muy bien”, or “Espero que se repita”, will open the doors for a second date, and if you’re lucky, her place for a glass of wine… As independent as women are today, we Colombian girls are used to the type of ‘gentleman’ who takes them home.Dropping her off or walking her home, doesn’t mean that she will have sex with you, but if you did a really good job, she might invite you for a glass of vino or a tinto (don’t get confused, they’re not the same thing for Colombians).However, if the words ‘comer’ and ‘tirar’ are in your repertoire, be sure to use them very carefully, unless you want to screw it up.Take advantage of your sense of humor when you are with a Colombian.Taking her home is just a way to let her know that you want her to go back safe.Colombia is one of the most beautiful countries in the world, thanks to its eclectic culture, it’s warm climate, the historic architecture, and of course, its unique landscape as well.She will love your charming accent and think you are the cutest for trying to speak her language.Even if you only know a few words, make good use of them.However, if you want to win a Colombian woman’s heart –or any woman’s heart for that matter- then you should look at more significant qualities like her background and her personality.You want to be with someone whose personality you enjoy, and if you wish to start a family, then you’ll also want to be with someone that shares the same values as you do.