One must always, always, be alert for scams, fakers and floosies (unless you like that sort of thing) whether in real life or on the net.Can't blame the site too much when it's free, as obviously they can't afford staff to vet everything. It can only give RSVP et al some healthy competition and encourage them to be more fair with fee structures.I know only of Oasis Active and Plenty Of Fish so far.I wish they were being actively advertised to people here in Perth – the main downside is not many people know about them!RSVP banned me for some reason and all I did was make an account.Their tech support refuses to answer my emails for an explanation.The problem with most free sites is that, registration is too easy -username, password & check some boxes, so you end up with a lot of messages from clowns & scammers, you know "the babes that look too good to be true", and probably some kids under age because the only requirement is basically "click here if you are over 18" Let's face it the sole purpose of a free dating site is not about dating, but to get you to click their ads because that's how they make their money.
As the poster I've quoted stated, even women I believe the general male would consider to be average are in no hurry to find relationships.The argument that fees result in quality people is a valid one, but RSVP's structure is simply unfair – pay just to "express interest", and your stamps have a time limit. Of course they have a "premium" membership, which allows proper two-way contact.So their structure is aimed at making people go premium simply out of desperation if they really want to contact someone. It's interesting that Match is now being taken to task for that approach: News/id USN0939287520090609 With the above in mind I, for one, welcome our free-dating-site overlords.Maybe its because I blocked their bots who kept sending requests....I would get out more, but having finish study I dont' have much of a network for going out (and meeting people) and most of my female friends aren't around no more (shakes fist). A very bad one my so called partner of nearly 4 years is a member trawling for women his screen name is beewild from redcliffe don't believe a word this liar says!!!!!!!if you like those sorts of people, then internet dating may be for you. I'm getting out into the real world where I can avoid the false advertising of artifical made-up dolls with a woman who can't stand up without a team of Party-officials (friends) telling her what to do every step of the way.Where are you my taller, older green-eyed lass with black hair? strange women on there, even the ones who Id consider 5s and 6s show no love lolol....I believe that they get more attention on Oasis Active than they do in real life.Often very flattering attention so there may not be a great incentive to leave Oasis Active.The odds of finding Mr Perfect are tantalisingly high with that many contact requests coming in and it would be tempting to hang around and wait for him to come along.However, the chances of Mr Perfect actually existing are unlikely, so they continue to wait.