If anyone understands the desire to get hammered to ease sexual anxiety, it's me.
However, it's a bad idea, and I've made the "getting wildly drunk pre-hookup" mistake enough times so you don't have to, sweet pea.
You'll get yourself into a hell of a lot of drama if you act like "you've done this a million times," and she catches you telling tall tales. You owe any person you're about to be intimate with your honesty, babe. You can lie about other things (career, where you live, your name).
Meanwhile, I was terrible at going down on her (though now I'm a fucking rockstar), my palms were sweating like I had fallen ill with the plague and my body was trembling like a weak building amidst a California earthquake. Don't do what I did because it's very off-putting (and it's negative energy) to get caught up in a lie.If you are a single bisexual dater, please feel free to add some of your own tips in the comments section to share in the wisdom and help others in the community.Because many people have a black-or-white view on sexuality, you will likely encounter others who may be uncomfortable with your sexual preferences.Plenty of girls will be down to experiment with you, but some girls (like me) aren't into it these days.We've been there, we've done it and bought the t-shirt.Fritz Klein, though it’s predominantly clinical and analyzes it from an identity perspective (a good read and highly recommended if you’re interested in this subject).All one has to do is cruise the Internet to find a plethora of sites devoted to heterosexual and gay relationship issues.The truth of the matter is sexuality is not binary.It’s flexible and fluid, and bisexuality is indeed a valid and real orientation.We experiment to figure out what we want, and that's a sobering reality that needs to be done, well, uh OK, so you're on a date with this girl and you really want to kiss her, but you're terrified.Don't push that fear down and pretend it doesn't exist.