Here’s an example of a woman’s profile that is sending all the wrong messages.If you’ve spent a lot of time on your profile and you’re still not creating quality connections it might be time to bring in the experts.So what do I do when I am not working on the next great American work of literature?Well, Rock climbing is one of my greatest thrills it gives me the feeling of working with nature to push myself beyond my limits.These guys and their data teams ran queries of all kinds and pulled spreadsheet after spreadsheet of information to try and answer our strange questions.We also needed Ok Cupid to get permission from their users to enable us to publish those popular profile pics.I need to meet someone who will introduce me to new things, adore (or put up with) my wacky moods and keep me in line. I’m looking for a guy who likes to plays but can keep it real. I’m looking for a man that is intelligent, funny, handsome, patient, responsible, loyal and that makes me feel safe.
We couldn’t have done any of this without the help of the data maestros at Match and Ok Cupid: Christian Rudder, cofounder and president of Ok Cupid, and Jim Talbott, director of consumer insights at
We analyzed the 1,000 most popular words on both men and women’s profiles, tabulated the most popular movies and TV shows, and crunched stats on what people consider their best feature vs.
what features their potential dates are attracted to.
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