If he has met someone else, that doesn’t mean that hope is lost.
One minute you’re on on the best date of your life and the next minute wondering why he became so cold and distant.He might be having his own private freakout about it.Rather than push for more commitment (and those little “hints” qualify) make sure you’re nurturing the relationship itself.Notice I’m not saying, “withdraw from relationship and nag him about the reasons why.” If you feel like you have to pursue a commitment from a man who isn’t certain whether or not you’re The One, the logical thing to do is to pull back, take care of yourself, and see what happens. John Gray, says in his bestselling book , says this is an actual stage ALL long term relationships go through, and it’s a very important one. Gray, this is a time when your guy generally feels uncertain and just trying to figure out where the relationship is going himself.He’s torn between taking things to the next level, and losing his freedom.Often when a man withdraws from a relationship, it can make a woman chase him and do even more damage.Remember that when a man feels pressure, no matter what the situation is, he resists.In all likelihood, the chemistry between the two of you couldn’t be better– which is why it’s so confusing that he’s pulling away from your relationship.His own personal chemistry has everything to do with it. Oxytocin is a hormone that rises and falls according to what is happening with our other hormones.They fall in love with and marry the woman who they feel is their biggest fan. People naturally gravitate towards people who make them feel good. Sometimes this happens when a man starts to look outside of his relationship for the admiration and appreciation that has gone missing.If they marry that woman and life starts getting in the way of her admiration, they will have the affair with the next woman who is their biggest fan. The best way to keep someone in your life is to make sure that your interactions with them are on average five times positive to each negative interaction. As the newness wears off, sometimes women get naggy and stop doing the loving things that they used to when the relationship was new.