BTW, some of the 'voyeurs' (i.e., guys who ask a lot of questions about the lifestyle, but have no intention of indulging in it whatsoever -- they just like to hear about it and get off on it), will never learn from such a forum anyway. I would say I am mostly submissive, but not in a dom/sub type way. As a larger woman, I tend to be attracted to larger men (not fat, just large). I liked that he could lift me wrap his arms way around me, so I felt smaller and more feminine. Muscular and strong, but smaller than I am used to.
I tend to be much more submissive with him, as I like him to use his strength and masculine power to make me feel smaller and more feminine.
So, I no longer bring it up, unless I detect that person and I are on the same page.
Generalizations are for those who live their lives by crib notes ... It could serve as somewhat of an educational experience for the "voyeurs" and those uninformed about the scene.
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