I went for about a year without a girlfriend of any kind.I was meeting the occasional girl, but I wasn't able to get anything off the ground.FAST SUCCESS TIP #2: "Conversation Jump-Start" Have you ever been talking to a woman for a few minutes, and as the energy of the conversation starts to dip a little (right about where you are running out of things to say) she just looks back to her friends and turns her back to you?I call this the "back turn," and it's one of those experiences guys hate more than anything.Just look at the girl and ask her to tell you how everyone in her group knows each other.You can say this: "Hey, before you run out of cool things to talk about, tell me... " If you listen closely, what she says will give you at least ten new subjects that you can then talk with her and her friends about - their jobs, their history, all the juicy stuff you can use for a good conversation. Plus, by getting her friends back in on the conversation, you avoid that "creepy guy hitting on their friend" situation.
And if I did get a date, it always ended up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy." But I'd also look at my guy friends who had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart." So How In The World Were These Other Guys I asked myself that over and over again.
You may know this one, too, where you're talking with a woman, and suddenly one of her friends drags her away to go talk with some other "friend." What really happened there was that the girl you were talking to used her "chick code" (those looks women share that seem telepathic) to say, These are just some of the techniques and strategies you will learn in my dating manual, The Dating Black Book.
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It was very tempting to give up and just write women off completely. If there were things other guys were doing that could get women interested in them, I could figure out what that was, and then learn it and use it myself. The truth is that once you do figure out the method they're using (and I eventually did), it's simple.
I had been learning songs on guitar for years, just by getting the sheet music and copying the notes, so why would this be any different? Lesson 1: Attraction is Not Something You're Taught. You just need to learn from someone that knows how to explain it right. But the funny thing about attraction is that it does work by predictable laws.